Before we arrived in Nicaragua, several people recommended Henri Nouwen's ¡Gracias! A Latin American Journal. It documents Nouwen's thoughts and reflections from the 6 months he spent in Latin America back in the 80s. We've been following his entries day by day since we arrived, and it's been a rich blessing. Nouwen articulates many of the thoughts and feelings that we've had, but with more wisdom and experience. He's served as our mentor during these first 4 months.
He writes frequently about being a 'presence' with people, making time for conversations and relationships. This is over and against the temptation to spend lots of time 'working' to make a difference in a place like Nicaragua. He suggests that when we simply be present with people, we create space for the Holy Spirit to speak to both us and 'them,' the people with whom we're present. We're working at it.
If you get a chance, we highly recommend you read it. We might be posting more reflections from this book here as well.
--Alan